Gods medicine for marriage

In the words of Kenneth Hagin Sr. Its not the problem that defeats us or circumstances but our attitude toward the problem,anger bitterness , wrath, tell us we are not walking in love, so we are on the devils territory where God can't help us. Romans 5:1-2 Get in Gods grace and Stand and rejoice in HOPE of God manifesting his glory on your behalf. I wrote this poem on our 11 wedding anniversary, I still feel the same way today. when Salomon spoke it was a word to the wise a virtous woman is a PEARL OF GREAT PRICE thank you God for giving me my wife for she truly is a ( PEARL of great price) God helped me to love her the way she deserved to be loved. We are on our way to our 50th anniversary. MURMURING IN NUMBERS NUMBERS 14: 27-28 CAME AS A RESULT OF DISOBEDIANCE NOT FOLLOWING GODS DIRECTIONS,MURMURING COMES OUT OF US NOT GETTING OUR WAY . ( THE ENTRANCE OF HIS WORD BRINGS LIGHT) WHEN YOU CAN'T SEE WHAT GOD SEES YOU COMPLAIN, HE SEES YOUR MARRIAGE WORKING, THAT PROBLEM ON THE JOB FIXED, DON'T TRY TO FIX IT YOURSELF, ( HE IS LORD ) The reason most people have trouble in marriage and other relationships is the fact (like I failed to do for so many years) and that is to walk in love and let Jesus be Lord James : 4-1 From where comes wars and fighting among you? Lord means " owner" You have to let him tell you what to do. YEP that was why my wife and I had trouble, each one trying to tell the other what to do instead of letting Gods word tell us what to do you can't get away from the love walk, nothing works right because faith worketh by love. Don't blame God or your spouse the problem is with you, let love fix you and God will take care of your companion